I recently heard an argument kind of like that one that I am going to make here. And let me say that while I make this argument, I’m not sure I agree with it…completely. The point in question here is this: Could the arrival fallacy phenomenon be good for residents in training?
The arrival fallacy
Arrival fallacy is the experience where we set a goal in the future and say, “when I achieve X or reach X, I will be happy/fulfilled/complete/etc.” And then when we reach it, we don’t feel how we expect.
Instead, we feel the same. Or maybe even worse because our expectations were not met. We want more.
And so we establish another goal or timeline or achievement to reach. And so the wheel turns.
The arrival fallacy for residents
I think we all can relate to the arrival fallacy phenomenon. In a lot of different ways. Big big and small.
But where we, as humans, are most susceptible to this is when we work towards a huge life changing milestone, accomplishment, or similar thing. And the end of residency training is a really huge milestone and accomplishment. And it is immensely life-changing. Our jobs change. Our income changes.And our responsibilities change.
It is the culmination of everything that we have worked for over a decade to accomplish. All with the expectation that it will pay off.
But guess what really happens at the end of residency?
Nothing. At least nothing like we except.
Yes, things change. We make more money, true. But we adapt to all these changes pretty quick. And there is no magic bullet. Ending residency will not innately make us happier. Or more fulfilled. Especially if our goal was purely extrinsic – just to finish residency and get out of that chaotic and grueling experience- rather than intrinsic.
How do I know all this. Because I experienced it!
I got toward the end of training and thought, “That’s it?!” I don’t know what I expected. But it was something. And it didn’t just come to me because I finished training. There was a lot more soul-searching and mindset work that needed to happen – and finally did.
As an aside, while the purpose of this post is not to go over some ways to avoid and overcome arrival fallacies, I will mention that finding your why is a great place to start.
Instead, we are talking about something else…
Could it actually be good for residents?
Seems like the obvious answer is no. But, in some ways, I think there can actually be a silver lining to it.
Because residency is tough. It’s long hours, little pay, general pretty thankless. It’s a breeding ground for burnout like happened to me.
Even for very resilient individuals, which I consider myself to be, training is a bear. There are days where you just don’t want to do it. Most residents have felt like quitting at some point. (Don’t get me wrong. There are great times in residency as well! But with all peaks come valleys.)
But in the end, many things help pull us through. Our family. Our friends. Hopefully our co-residents and attending mentors. Our faith or beliefs. Or our hobbies.
But another pretty powerful force pulls us through – the belief that things will get magically better when we finish. Also known as our arrival fallacy!
I can. certainly think of times where this notion and idea helped me to grind a bit longer, a bit harder…
But is that a good thing?
Ultimately, relying on an arrival fallacy that will ultimately fail you is not the healthiest way to deal with these challenges in training.
A much better way would be to do the upfront mindset work so that the end of training brings you the internal joy and satisfaction that you rightly deserve.
But, if it is a matter of not finishing training and becoming a doctor, and an arrival fallacy gets you through, I suppose that’s worth something!
What do you think? Could an arrival fallacy have some benefit for residents? Why or why not? Let me know in the comments below!
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